Dear Young Lady,

I think if you are still asking the question, that would be a strong reason to wait. My daughter struggled with this decision for some time. I would suggest that you find an adult that you can trust (I was very fortunate that my daughter trusted me & talked with me about this before hand) and speak with that adult about the seriousness of the decision you make. My thought is that you have to be willing to give your life over to the person you are thinking about have physical relations with. Keep in mind, even if you use protection, protection can and does fail - leading to possible unplanned pregnancy and STD's, including the HIV virus which is where I get the "giving your life" from.
Bottom line, I think you need to think about this decision longer & you definitely need to rethink your screen name - it should be wonderfulyounglady!

I hope I have been of some assistance!
purityspring

Hello and thank you for being brave and honest enough to ask a tough question here on Education.com.

In my humble opinion, if you are having doubts then YOU are not ready.  Any boyfriend who has a healthy respect for you will abide by your wishes and continue in your relationship.  If he bails, then you will have no regrets as to have been intimate with a person who did not fully respect you. Also, I see that your name is "IHateMyself".. please feel consider taking the time to talk with a counselor about this serious issue and any other that is making you feel badly.  

Also, if you do decide to become involved, please take all precautions to be safe and healthy.

I wish you well regardless of your decision.

If you aren't sure you aren't ready. Any guy worth having will wait. Right now things are scary (trust me been there) but the future is what's important. As a teen there are so many options for you on where your life will go. Please don't do what I did and let so many opportunities pass you by. I got married at 18 and never did I regret anything more. I am now 25 and on my second marriage. Thankfully I did find someone worth having the second time around and everything worked out, I have my education and several degrees and a wonderful family, but in the early days it was easy to seem like it wasn't even worth trying to live anymore. Please consider YOU before any guy, no matter how great he seems, you have to live with you forever, do whats best for your future.

if you are ready . wax on wax off

i dont no how old u are but i do think u should wait
ie is your dission but you can get relly bad dissise
so good luck love jasmine

how old are you. i mean don't think that he's going to do that.

no he won't

don't till u know that he has a real commitment to stay with you for life

i'll if u want bb !!!!!!

me tooo

Don't do it! You sounds too young to get emotionally involved and if doesn't like it then you were not meant to be with him.

I agree about you saying you are not mature enough because to be 100% honest you aren't. Yes sex is something i also want to do but if you think this boy will leave you after you guys do it..open your eyes..he is TOTALLY not worth it!! Plus you are genna met SO many more boys in high school and in college..how do you know this boy is the one or if you guys will get married? I think you should wait and you are a very very smart girl who thinks about things before doing them. I highly respect you for that and you seem like a great person! Don't let one boy make you become insecure or think badly of yourself. You deserve number ONE not 2, not 3, not 4, not 5 and so on! Think about all your options..do you really want to have sex? do you really think this is the guy you'll marry? I think you should save your body for the right guy who means the world to you, respects you, and doesn't want to get into your pants like this guy your with seems to.

no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!