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What do I do, when I have done all I can think to do, to regain my wifes love and devotion.
She has had every man in her life, her dad, her first husband who is dead now, her grandfather who molested her when she was five years old, several times, and I get the feeling that no matter how hard I try, it won't ever be good enough. My step-daughters also, as I have written in previous letters have had this seperatist mentallity that she is now also embracing. I feel helpless as what to do, I am almost to the point of seperating from her for awhile, for neither of us believe in divorce. It has been this was off and on for 21 years now and is getting worse. We have lived in a new area for over six months now and her and I have not been intimate at all for that time. What do I do now. I keep getting beat down all the time inspite of my attempts at loving her and appeasing her. I'm very hurt and tired. I am trying to finish college at the same time and it just inhibits me from concentrating on my school work. Please help if you can.