corsair1564
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My son with ADHD/ODD is failing 6th grade because he won't get the homework done. Is tutoring the right answer & is there financial aid for this?
My 12 year old son does reasonably well on tests, but is failing the 6th grade because he won't do the homework and get it turned in. He's been diagnosed and is under treatment for ADHD and ODD, and we have started the process to create a 504 plan for him. Would tutoring help and if so, is there any financial aid to help pay for these services?
In Topics: Working with my child's teacher(s), Working with tutors, Special needs
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Allyn Anderson
Apr 25, 2009
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I agree that it is so frustrating when a capable child fails. Your idea of a tutor is a great one. Unfortunately, most tutors do cost money unless your school or county provides free or low cost services to their constituents. Give your school a call; usually the counseling dept. handles this kind of a question.
 
You might seek other opportunities too. Consider having a capable student in 8th grade or above work with your child --- under your supervision, of course. Usually a person can get another student at a fraction of the cost for an adult or another type of tutoring program.
 
If you can, take time to sit down and study with your child; two working together is usually more fun than just one. Another option is to have your child sit at the kitchen table and work on homework while you cook supper. Sometimes a child just needs a "buddy" around. That way you can keep an eye on your child's progress and be available to help answer questions "immediately" when questions arise. Consider too shorter but more frequent work sessions. For instance, when studying vocabulary, ask your child to study only the ones he doesn't know, and then review those for 5-10 min. for about 3-4 times a day. I suspect your chld will find that he learns these better by studying shorter periods. I also find it helpful to have the child work with a timer, especially on math homework. I always ask the child how many problems he think he can do in 5 minutes. Let your child set the timer and work against his set time. If he makes his goal, give him a pat on the back. If he doesn't make it, just encourage him to try again.
 
Good luck in coordinating the help your son needs. Ms. A

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Aish
Aish writes:
If he is doing well on tests, that means that he understands the concepts and does not have a problem in retaining and delivering what he learns. Since he has trouble with finishing homework, he just needs someone to guide and help him with the homework.
I think a caring and friendly tutor can certainly help. But you should make sure that he gets 1-on-1 help as opposed to a group tutoring.
 
We have worked with quite a few children who were diagnosed with ADHD at www.clickandclimb.com and our tutors seem to have done well. The parents were very satisfied with the results. I think it's due to the 1-on-1 attention that the tutors can give to the students in a safe, secure and FUN online environment.
 
Take a look at my website- www.clickandclimb.com and compare the rates. You will be pleasantly surprised at how affordable it is. I would recommend you try 2 free sessions to see if the program is good for your family.

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kjack
kjack writes:
Its a quick question, but if he is failing because of homework only, he is learning. A tutor wont help. I was one of those kids many years ago. (70-80) I just plain tried to do as little as possible to get by. I dont know what ur child may be doing but by 5th grade I was trying to figure how many homework assignments I could miss without falling below a "D" grade. My school grades were very low, but, my test scores etc. were very high. Your child may or may not be the same way. You need to be involved with his teacher. It may very simply be a case of being bored to death.
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LDSolutions
LDSolutions , Child Professional writes:
You might consider working together with the teacher in his classroom to put together some type of positive reward system everytime he turns his homework in. For example the teacher could give him a ticket when he brings his homework in.  This ticket at home can get him an extra 15 minutes of video game time (or whatever you chose as the reward).  You might also guide him through the process of finishing his homework and then putting it in his backpack.  On the binder could be  a stickie note saying "did I give my homework to my teacher?"  Its important that he feel success the first few weeks of this new reward system.  Hopefully it will put him into a routine that will continue throughout the year.  If you do hire a tutor, make sure it is a specialized teacher that is trained to work with students with ADHD. You might have to pay for this privately but hopefully it won't be forever.  Sometimes just a month of study skills coaching and organizational training will do the job.
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