You might be surprised to know that this is a widespread problem.  I'll assume your son is a teenager or a young adult.  The problem is so widespread that it has even been considered for classification as a psychiatric diagnosis though much more research needs to be done before that would happen.  At this point, it sounds like your son needs more help than a family can realistically provide. I would suggest talking with your family doctor and asking about resources for counseling.  The problem would typically be approached as an addiction, and proven, effective counseling techniques are available. The counselor could also help your son deal with bullying, if that is actually occurring.  As with most addictions, however, the key is for the individual to be ready to change.  This can be a tough step, so be realistic as you consider treatment options.

Jeanne H. Brockmyer, Ph. D. education.com expert clinical psychologist