Jay is 13, he has adhd. jay has NO friends at all, its sad, but he is different from other kids like.. he dresses out of style, his hair has no style and he dont take care of his looks n doesnt want to b bothered with it but jay is really very good looking .. now he also talks about things that dont interest other kids his own age or any age really, n he speaks in a way that idk no one else does, he is very litteral at times.  jay is affraid to stay home alone if we run up the street to the store, he wont ride his bike off the block when other kids his age r going to the store 2 miles away. he gets picked on in school, he is really a super nurd, he's the neadle in a haystack that sticks out like a sore thumb!  and i just want to help him because i know he isnt happy, all he does is watch tv with me n his dad or play xbox alone  or his lago's , his taste in music is his parents not his own, he talks about flying planes n driving trains like he really is doing it when its just a computer game!  ppl look at him like he's nuts and it brakes my heart. plz dont tell me to leave him alone i dont want to , he really needs help! he needs friends all kids do specially his age when life is changing so much for him he needs someone his age to confide in and laugh with and talk about girls with ect.. please give me real advice. fyi i do have 2 kids of my own all grown up and i never had this problem b4 n also know... i love him like he was mine.