Visiting and Interviewing Family Child Care Providers (page 3)
Family child care is care provided in someone else’s home for a small number of children, usually of various ages. This type of care offers several possible benefits to children and their parents. Children are usually cared for in small groups, making it easier to meet their individual needs. The setting can be warm, intimate, and informal, like part of the extended family. This makes it particularly attractive for infants and toddlers, who need to be held and helped on their own personal schedules. Because the groups are small, children who are very susceptible to colds and other illness may stay healthier in a family setting than in a center. Often child care homes serve children of various ages, including school-aged kids before and after school, which adds to the family-like experience. Family-based providers may have more flexible schedules than child care centers, making it easier to arrange care outside the typical 7:30 A.M. to 5:30 P.M. time frame. Finally, family child care is less expensive than center care in many parts of the country, although you may want to pay extra so as to help your caregiver provide the highest level of care possible.
Family child care also has disadvantages. Most important, states and localities have only very basic rules governing who can look after children at home and how that care is provided. (Several states have no regulations at all.) What rules exist are not enforced well and are ignored by many home care providers. Often you may be the only judge of the health and safety of a provider’s home and how much she knows about looking after children. In most cases the family child care provider works alone. If she gets sick, you’ll need a backup arrangement. If she goes out of business, you have to scramble to find someone else. And many of the people who look after children in their own homes have no education or training in child development or child care. This isn’t necessarily bad, but in general, trained providers are better at what they do than caregivers without those educational experiences.
Group Family Child Care
Group family child care is provided in someone else’s home by two or more adults, one of whom lives in the home. Some states have a special licensing category for group family child care arrangements, while others simply consider them a type of family child care.
The number of children in a group family child care setting is larger than in regular family child care—often including as many as twelve children. But because there are at least two caregivers, the ratio of children to adults should be about the same, one adult for every six children.
Group family child care homes often function as mini-child care centers, with one or more rooms set aside for child care and environments designed specifically to meet the needs of preschool children (individual storage cubbies, child-sized tables and chairs, designated activity areas). They are usually run by adults who have specialized training in early childhood education and a strong professional orientation. Frequently these providers will have a well-thought-out educational philosophy, which is clearly expressed in writing and reflected in the way they work with children. Often the owner of the home functions as the head teacher of the child care program, with a second adult hired as an assistant.
The licensed group family child care home is a rather new addition to the American child care scene. This alternative has many good things to offer families. If well organized, it has many of the advantages of regular family child care without the disadvantages. The group is a manageable size, and the adult-to-child ratio is good. The family-like environment is easy to maintain, and mixed age groupings (infancy to school age) are possible. Overhead costs are likely to be lower than those of a center, so fees will be a bit lower. But children are not cared for by a lone provider so there is less need to make backup arrangements when a caregiver is sick. The program is almost certain to be licensed and the caregivers to have received some training.
Visiting and Interviewing Family Child Care Providers
It is a good idea to begin comparing family child care programs well in advance of when your child will need care. Give yourself plenty of lead time—at least three months, more if you are looking for infant care. The good family child care programs are popular, so you need to reserve space well in advance. Five steps are involved in selecting a family care provider:
Step 1: Contact providers by telephone and check references.
Step 2: Visit selected homes.
Step 3: Interview providers.
Step 4: Make a choice.
Step 5: Get it in writing.
Step 1: Contact Providers by Telephone and Check References
There may be a large number of family-based providers in your community. If you are working through a resource and referral agency, the referral specialist should have some idea of which providers have openings for a child the age of yours. Try to get as many names as possible from the referral agency, through newspaper ads, and via your own personal network. Once you have those names and telephone numbers, you can do some telephone screening. It is important to remember that you are calling someone at her place of work and that she is responsible for as many as five or six children. Always ask whether it is a good time for her to talk or whether it would be better if you called back at another time.
Each question for the reference has a very specific purpose. The “how long” question will tell you how much experience the reference had with the provider. The “how old” question will tell you whether the provider worked with children your child’s age. Answers to “What did you like?” and “What were you not happy with?” should give you some feel for strengths and weaknesses. But remember that these comments are shaped by the background and previous experience of the reference person, who you probably don’t know. You should also assume that the provider gave you the names of parents likely to have the most positive feelings about her abilities as a caregiver.
Child care always has its difficult moments—both for parents and for providers—so you need to feel that you can raise challenging issues with the caregiver. Do you get a feeling that this will be easy to do? Is she flexible enough to adjust her ways to meet the particular needs of your child?
The words to describe how the provider is with childrenand the activities she does with them should give you a feel for whether her approach to children matches yours and whether your child will feel both secure and stimulated (happy) in her care.
Sometimes caregivers who look after other children along with their own favor their own kids or have a hard time handling feelings of jealousy in their own children. It is important to know whether these problems will be issues for this provider.
Use your own instincts as you listen to the reference talk about her or his experiences with the provider. Try to read between the lines of what you are hearing. Is this person excited about and thankful for the experience with the provider or does she sound unenthusiastic? Is the person volunteering positive examples or giving you only the information you ask for and no more? Does the person sound guarded or protective? What is your own gut reaction to what this person is saying?
Step 2: Visit Selected Homes
It is best to make the first visit to your “finalist” homes without your child or children. As you can see from the checklist, there is much to look for and ask about, so you will have enough to do without also needing to be concerned about your own child. A get-acquainted visit to see how a potential caregiver and child respond to each other will be important once you have found a home that seems like a real possibility.
Visit at least two homes, even if you are lucky enough to find someone you like on the first try. You learn a lot, for better or for worse, by being able to make comparisons. Remember, part of this process is to educate yourself. Each visit to an additional home will expand your knowledge and sharpen your own definition of what you like and dislike in family child care.
Try to visit homes during a time when children are coming or going so that you can see how the child care provider interacts with parents as well as children. See if you can arrange to visit for at least 90 minutes; say from 8:00 until 9:30 in the morning or 4:00 to 5:30 in the afternoon.
You will want to interview the provider about what you see and don’t see during your visit. That may be difficult if she is very busy working with the children. When you set up the visit, ask whether there will be a chance for discussion. If not, arrange to call in the evening following your visit to ask follow- up questions.
Begin by confirming the information that you learned through your telephone interview—whether the home is licensed or certified, if there is space for your child during the hours you need care, and whether the costs will be what you expected.
Concern for safety requires that you poke around in the house and think about what could go wrong. You may feel somewhat guilty at having to be so nosy, but remember that the point is the safety of your child. Also keep the team concept in mind—if something needs fixing or replacing, maybe you can help out.
Remember to spend time outside walking around the house and examining any outdoor play area. Is it safe? Are there things for a child the age of yours to do? If the provider uses the facilities of a nearby park, can the children get there safely? How safe is the playground?
To learn what the caregiver is like and how she behaves with children requires that you take time to sit quietly and observe her in action. Try to imagine your child in this situation. Will this person respond quickly and positively to your child’s needs? Do you sense that she has a genuine love for children?
Are there enough activities and playthings to keep your child active and involved? Does the home feel child-centered or adult-centered? Are things organized, or does it seem a bit haphazard and out of control? The provider should have routines and planned activities for the children, and these routines and plans should be visible. A good follow-up question for the provider is why she organizes things the way she does.
Notice how the provider receives parents and children when they arrive in the morning and leave at the end of the day. Do the adults seem to like one another as friends or friendly neighbors would? Does the provider ask how the child slept last night and is feeling this morning? At pickup time does she share information with parents about how the day has gone for their children? Do you get the feeling that the provider and parents are really working together on behalf of the child, or are they “ships passing in the night”?
What You Should See
- help young children find enjoyable activities.
- talk and play directly with the children.
- respond right away if a child is in difficulty or has a question.
- manage disputes between children fairly and calmly.
A schedule that includes
- active play, such as dancing, building with big blocks, and playing outdoors.
- quiet play, such as looking at books, drawing, and playing with small toys.
- a quiet period, with nap or rest depending on the age of the children.
- snacks and meals.
What You Shouldn’t See
- Children left unsupervised, even for a minute.
- Children running around for no reason.
- Children sitting quietly with nothing to do.
- Children hurting each other, without an adult intervening.
- Toys that children can’t reach, or that are unsafe, or that are not appropriate for the age of the children.
- Candy, soda, or other sweets as snacks unless it is a special occasion.
- Food that infants and toddlers can choke on such as grapes, peanuts, and popcorn.
- Any physical discipline.
- Children isolated as punishment.
- Any invasion of children’s physical privacy.
- Any use of words to shame or embarrass a child or any excessive shouting.
By physical discipline we mean yanking children by their arms and pushing them around as well as hitting or shaking them. Even if you see a child do something that you would spank your own child for doing, no one else should be spanking your child. Child care providers must know and use other ways of correcting behavior. If they do not have those skills, don’t leave your child in their care.
Isolating a child in another room, or in a chair facing the wall, or standing in a corner is not a good idea. A child who is being disruptive or hurting another child might need to be taken out of the group and redirected into another activity. If the child is very upset and unable to control herself, the caregiver may need to stay with her and even hold her until she calms down enough to rejoin the group.
Physical privacy is an issue because of concerns about inappropriate sexual contact. Young children need and enjoy physical contact with adults. But the child should seek out the contact or show a need for contact that is appropriate. Caregivers should not continue to hug or kiss a child who shows discomfort or is trying to get away from them.
Reprinted with the permission of Cornell University. © 2008 Cornell University
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