Making Bedtime Pleasant and Peaceful

Making Bedtime Pleasant and Peaceful
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The Parent-Child Home Program
Bedtime can be the most delightful or the most stressful time of day for parents and toddlers.  A sleepy child does not necessarily mean an easy bedtime.  The end of the day can, however, be a wonderful time to talk, bond, and even learn, together. Here are some ways to make a successful transition from play to rest (many of these will work at naptime too!):
  • Develop special bedtime routines with your child - a special song, a good-night rhyme, a stuffed animal just to sleep with.
  • For many children, the key to successful bedtime is helping them "wind down". Many tantrums are caused when parents try to put children to bed without ample preparation. 
  • Help your child adjust to the idea of going to bed by creating a sense of calm and allowing time for her to transition from play to rest. 
  • The classic bedtime story is a great way to make the transition to sleep. Reading together can provide quiet cuddling time, help your child relax before bed, and instill a lifelong love reading.
These activities can also help make bedtime a pleasant experience for you and your toddler.
 
Countdown:

This activity helps children anticipate going to bed and is a fun way to introduce concepts of time and numbers. 

  • Set a timer for 1 hour before bedtime and show your child what you are doing.
  •  As your child completes his/her bedtime activities, announce how much time is left every fifteen minutes.
  •  When the last fifteen-minute period starts, begin making final preparations for going to sleep - snuggle and talk about the day, read a special story, or sing a favorite song.
Reverse Storytelling:
 
This activity cultivates a rich imagination and helps children drift of to sleep with happy thoughts.
 
Create a good bedtime story atmosphere by making sure your child's bedroom is quiet and dimly lit.  Cuddling on the bed, ask your toddler to tell you a bedtime story. Make sure they understand that it has to be a sleepy, quiet story so that the activity does not backfire. No stories about bouncing, jumping or a fast flying plane! 
 
Time Table:
 
This activity helps to establish a bedtime routine.
  • Make a list of the various activities your child does each night before bed (e.g., put on pajamas, brush teeth, have a drink, etc.) using pictures to represent each activity.
  • Make a list of the pictures of all the bedtime activities your child must complete each night before bed.
  • As your child does each activity on the picture list, she will know that bedtime is approaching bedtime. 
  • Be sure the final activity is fun and soothing.
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