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Developmental Milestones: Age - 3 years

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Topics: Early Years (Birth-5), An Overview of Ages 3-5, more...

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Normal childhood growth milestones - 3 years; Growth milestones for children - 3 years; Childhood growth milestones - 3 years

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This article describes the skills and growth markers relevant to 3-year-olds.

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These milestones are typical of children in the third year of life. Always keep in mind that some variation is normal. If you have questions about your child's development, contact your health care provider.

With physical and motor skills, a typical 3-year-old:

  • Gains about 5 pounds
  • Grows about 3 inches
  • Has improved balance
  • Has improved vision
  • May have daytime control over bowel and bladder functions (may have nighttime control as well)
  • Can briefly balance on one foot
  • May walk up the stairs with alternating feet
  • Can construct a block tower of more than 9 cubes
  • Can easily place small objects in a small opening

In sensory and cognitive skills, a child:

  • Has a vocabulary of many hundreds of words
  • Composes sentences of 3 to 4 words
  • Frequently asks questions
  • Can dress self, only requiring assistance with laces, buttons, and other fasteners in awkward places
  • Has longer attention span
  • Feeds self without difficulty
  • Acts out social encounters through play activities
  • Has some decrease in separation anxiety for short periods of time

At age 3, nearly all of a child's speech should be understandable.

Recommendations for parents regarding appropriate play at this age:

  • Provide a safe play environment and constant supervision.
  • Encourage and provide the necessary space for physical activity.
  • Instruct the child how to participate in and learn the rules of sporting activities.
  • Encourage play with other children to help develop social skills.
  • Encourage creative play.
  • Read together.
  • Limit both the time and the content of television viewing.
  • Expose your child to different stimuli by visiting local areas of interest.
  • Encourage your child to learn by answering questions and providing activities related to the child's particular interests.
  • Encourage your child to learn simple chore such as picking up their toys or room. Welcome their help in small household tasks.

Update Date: 6/13/2006

Updated by: Benjamin W. Van Voorhees, MD, MPH, Assistant Professor of Medicine and Pediatrics, The University of Chicago, Chicago, IL. Review provided by VeriMed Healthcare Network.

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  1. Jun 20, 2008
    Jamie says:
    I have a 3 year old little girl and she is, in my opinon, not anywhere near where she should be with talking.  If you ask her what her name is she says name, name, name.  She repeats everything you say to her.  She doesn't say any complete sentances, like "May I have some more please?"  She says "have some please".  You can only understand every other word or so.  She can dress herself  a little, walks ok, not a lot of balance.  I'm concerned about her and when we talk to her mom she acts like nothing is wrong and just thinks we are against her.  Any advise as to how I can help her.  I have a 19 month old daughter and she plays with her and I'm worried that her lack of speech and balance will effect my daughter.  Help please
    Jamie
  2. Aug 13, 2008
    heather says:
    I have a 3 yr old as well she doesnt know her name if you as her, U have to tell her and then she'll say it, she doesnt have great balance on her feet, She still talks like a baby and there isnt anything wrong with her. She just does things at her own pace. Her doctor says shes doing great, she even has febril seizers and he says she's where she suppose to be at at her age, all children grow and do things when thier ready, you can't force them to do it until their ready, as to walking and talking, what she does at three wont affect your 19 month old cause when your 19 month old starts talking and walking good has nothing to do with the 3 yr old you can't compare 2 children alike they do thing when they are ready not you, so don't worry about it. I hope this helps you.

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