What do I do if my child is a witness to bullying?
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Four strategies for teachers and parents to pass on to kids who witness bullying
- Stop! You’re Bullying!
Most bullies stop bullying within 10 seconds, when someone tells him or her to stop. A child or youth who witnesses bullying is very likely to make a positive difference simply by saying something like, “What you’re doing is bullying and it isn’t fair!” or “If you don’t stop I am going to report you!” It is important, however, that the witness keeps his/her own safety in mind too.
- Support the Victim
If the witness feels uncomfortable saying something to the bully, then they may choose to focus on supporting the victim instead.
- Reduce Attention to the Bully
Research indicates that bullies need an audience, and that passively watching, which may seem harmless, actually encourages the bullying to continue. If the witness feels uncomfortable intervening in a bullying episode, then they can help by just walking away.
- Report the Bully
Tell witnesses that they should report any bullying they see to a responsible adult such as a teacher, principal, playground supervisor, or bus driver.
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