Observation Guidelines: Assessing the Emotions of Children and Adolescents

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Happiness

Look For:

• Smiles
• Laughter
• Spontaneity

Example:

Paul, age 17, chatters with his friends during his school’s end-of-the-year athletic field day. He is happy about having schoolwork over and looks forward to his summer job and paychecks.

Implication:

Happiness helps people enjoy life and seek similar pleasurable experiences. Help children and adolescents find appropriate outlets to express their joy, and celebrate with them. Encourage them to talk about things they are happy about.

Anger

Look For:

• Frowns and angry expressions
• Possible retaliation toward the target of anger

Example:

Aranya, age 14, is furious that she wasn’t admitted into an elective course, whereas her two closest friends were. Aranya is angry with her teacher, who she thinks dislikes her.

Implication:

Anger helps people deal with obstacles to their goals, often spurring them to try new tactics. Help youngsters express their anger appropriately and determine how they can redirect their energy toward new solutions.

Fear

Look For:

• Scared face
• Withdrawal from circumstances
• Physiological responses, such as sweating

Example:

Tony, age 21⁄2, sits on his mat, eyes wide, body tense. He stares at a new poster of a clown in his preschool classroom. On this particular day, he becomes downright scared; he runs to his teacher and buries his head in her lap.

Implication:

Fear occurs when people feel threatened and believe that their physical safety and psychological well-being are potentially at stake. Fear motivates people to flee, escape from harm, seek reassurance, and perhaps fight back. Help children articulate their fears. Offer reassurance.

Sadness

Look For:

• Sad expression
• Crying
• Pouting
• Being quiet
• Possible withdrawal from a situation

Example:

Greta, age 15, sits quietly on a bench near her locker. With her head hung low, she rereads the letter from a cheerleading organization. She has not been admitted to the prestigious cheerleading summer camp.

Implication:

People are sad when they realize they cannot attain a desired goal or when they experience a loss, such as a friend moving to a distant city. Sadness causes some people to reassess their goals. Reassure children, help them express their sadness, and encourage them to consider ways to deal with sad feelings.

Disgust

Look For:

• Wrinkled nose
• Remarks such as “Phew!”
• Withdrawal from the source of displeasure

Example:

Norton, age 8, looks skeptically at the meal he has just purchased in the school cafeteria. He wrinkles his nose and averts his gaze from the “tuna melt” on his plate.

Implication:

Disgust occurs when people encounter food, smells, and sights they find repulsive. Disgust is nature’s way of getting people to be wary of something that is potentially troublesome or threatening to their health. Respect children’s feeling of disgust, but also encourage them to reflect on why they might have this reaction.

Anxiety

Look For:

• Frequent worrying
• Excessive fidgeting, hand wringing, or nail biting
• Avoidance of source of anxiety

Example:

Tanesha, age 16, has to give an oral presentation to her class. She has spent time preparing but is worried that, when she is standing all by herself in front of the group, she might get so nervous that she forgets everything she wants to say.