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Eleven Things to Do Right After You Arrive on Campus (page 4)

By Robert H. Miller
John Wiley & Sons, Inc.

Make Your Room A Home And Get Organized!

For most of us, going away to college was the first significant time we spent away from home. You're in a new place, with new people and new surroundings. The experience can be somewhat disconcerting for even the most confident among us. So once you have the groundwork taken care of, spend some time setting up your living space"and make it your own.

First and foremost, make it comfortable. Spend a few dollars for a good pillow, good sheets, and a comforter that will allow you both to sleep well and to make your bed with a minimum of fuss. Hang some posters. Put out some framed pictures of family and friends to remind you of your connections to others in these exciting (and sometimes scary) days of disconnection in your new place. Create the vibe you want.

Be Social

Be as social as you can during these first few days. Sure it feels awkward.

It feels awkward to everyone. There are hundreds or even thousands of new people to meet. There will be people from all over the country and all over the world, people from backgrounds similar to yours, and others who are completely unlike you.

Some you will like. Others you won't.

Resist the urge to stereotype people, to just cling to your roommates or to your friends from high school or boarding school, or to gravitate to the people most like you. Resist the urge to be shy.

Have A Roommate Or Suite Meeting To Set The Ground Rules

The importance of getting off on the right foot with your roommates and suitemates cannot be overstated. As soon as all your roommates or suitemates have arrived on campus and all parents and relatives have departed, gather everyone together and set some ground rules. 

Campus Confidential Mentors and Uber-Mentors:

Campus Confidential contains the collective advice of a a diverse group of people who have traveled the road to college. Some are recent college graduates who can counsel you on the college experience as it is today. Other are a few years removed from their college days and can provide a longer view of the decisions you will need to make before, during, and after college. Here is a little bit about the mentors and uber-mentors in these articles.

Dan Bissell – Campus Confidential Uber-Mentor

Portland, Oregon

B.A. Middlebury College cum laude, 1993. Major: Geology

M. D. University of Colorado School of Medicine, Adler Scholar, 2002

 

Tom Teh Chiu – Campus Confidential Uber-Mentor

Brooklyn, New York

B. A. Yale University, 1993. Major: double major in Chemistry and Music

M. M. Juilliard School, 1995

M Juilliard School, 2001

Jim Bright – Campus Confidential Uber-Mentor

Winston-Salem, North Carolina

B. A. Duke University, magna cum laude, Phi Beta Kappa, 1997. Major: History

 

Amanda Cramer – Campus Confidential Uber-Mentor

Paso Robles, California

B.A. Cornell University Phi Beta Kappa, 1993. Major: Mathematics

Graduate study in food science – Enology, University of California at Davis 1997-2000

 

Zoe Robbins – Campus Confidential Uber-Mentor

Gouldsboro, Maine

B.A. (1) Wellesley College magna cum laude, Phi Beta Kappa, 1997. Major: Economics

B.A. (2) University of Pennsylvania, 2001. Major: Nursing

 

Carolyn Koegler – Campus Confidential Uber-Mentor

Hopkinton, New Hampshire

B. A. Tufts University, cum laude, 1993. Double major: History and Spanish

 

Erik Norton – Campus Confidential Uber-Mentor

Boston, Massachusetts

B. A. Massachusetts Institute of Technology, 1993. Major: Mathematics

 

Lyndsee Dickson – Campus Confidential Mentor

Concord, New Hampshire

B.A. New York University, cum laude, 2004. Major: East Asian studies

 

Kevin Donovan – Campus Confidential Mentor

Somerville, Massachusetts

B.A. Boston College, honors in the major, 1993. Major: English, Minor: Creative Writing

 

Tiffany Chan – Campus Confidential Mentor

Concord, New Hampshire

B.S. New York University, 2005. Major: Communication Science

 

Erica Eubanks – Campus Confidential Mentor

Memphis, Tennessee

B.A. Tennessee State University, National Deans List, 2003. Major: Criminal Justice

 

Dave Irwin – Campus Confidential Mentor

Carlisle, Massachusetts

B.A. Middlebury College departmental honors, 2004. Major: American Civilization, Minor: Education

 

Chase Johnson – Campus Confidential Mentor

London, England

B. A. Duke University, with Phi Alpha Theta distinction in history, 2005. Major: History

 

Aaron Paskalis – Campus Confidential Mentor

Magnolia, Massachusetts

West Point Military Academy, then transferred to UMass Amherst

B. A. University of Massachusetts at Amherst, 2005. Major: Legal studies

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