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Families with Unique Challenges (page 4)

By S.K. Alper|P.J. Schloss|C.N. Schloss
Pearson Allyn Bacon Prentice Hall

Parents Who Experience Disabilities

One result of the recent emphasis on protecting the legal and human rights of persons with disabilities is that more of these individuals are allowed to experience heterosexual relationships such as friendships, dating, and marriage. Some of these persons will become parents.

Turnbull and Turnbull (1990) identified two sensitive issues that arise when persons with intellectual or psychological disabilities become parents. First, there are social and legal prohibitions against persons who are mentally retarded or mentally ill having children. In some states, these individuals can be legally barred from marriage or reproduction. In other cases, parents may decide to obtain some form of birth control for their children with disabilities when they reach sexual maturity with or without the child's consent. As Turnbull and Turnbull (1990) pointed out, these same restrictions are typically not applied to persons who have different problems that might raise questions about their ability to parent, such as chronic drug abuse or a history of violence.

The second issue involving parents who have disabilities noted by Turnbull and Turnbull (1990) is the assumption of parental incompetence. While low IQ does not preclude the possibility that an individual can raise healthy children, it means that supports for both the parent and child are needed. Child care skills, homemaking skills, consumer skills, assistance with managing finances, and vocational training may be needed by the parent. We should remember, however, two important points. First, these same skills are needed by many parents without disabilities. Unfortunately, parenting skills are still learned "on-the-job" by most individuals. Second, child abuse and neglect occur across all social, economic, and educational levels.

Noncustodial Biological Parents

Over half a million children are growing up in settings other than their natural homes. Many of these children have disabilities. Some biological parents have been legally forced to relinquish custody of their children because the courts have deemed them unfit parents. Child abuse and neglect have often occurred in these cases. Other parents, however, have voluntarily made the decision to give up custody of their child. In still other instances, parents have opted to retain legal custody of their child but to place the child in a residential setting other than their own home.

What factors might compel parents to place their child outside of the home? What are the effects of such a decision on the parents, the child, siblings, and other family members? These are important questions. They are questions that are difficult to answer for several reasons. First, the factors involved in the decision to keep a child with disabilities in the home or to place that child outside of the family home are many and complex. How a particular family copes with a child with disabilities is influenced by many factors including amount of resources and information available to the family, level of income, education, family dynamics, religion, and federal, state, and local policies in effect that apply to persons with disabilities and their families. Every family is unique. Generalizations are hard to make.

Decisions made by families about where a child with disabilities will reside are also influenced by the scientific knowledge base available. For example, prior to 1975, many professionals believed that competitive employment, living in the community, and attending integrated schools were beyond the capabilities of persons with moderate to severe disabilities. Today these same goals characterize state-of-the-art programs. We now know more about the learning capabilities of these individuals and, as a result, have developed more effective teaching strategies.

Another reason that makes it difficult to answer questions regarding noncustodial biological parents is that the field of special education focuses on the child to a much greater extent than the family. We have a much richer understanding of children with disabilities than of their families. This almost exclusive emphasis on the child is evident in demographic data collected by federal and state agencies. While many statistical profiles of children who are placed outside of the home are available, very few statistics are collected on the biological families of these children.

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