Developing the Giving Habit - A Newsletter for Parents of Fifth Grade Children

Developing the Giving Habit

Start by talking to your child about what you do to share what you have with others. Point out the agencies, churches, or various causes you support. Then help the child set realistic goals for his or her own giving and sharing.

Next, spend time talking with your child about all the resources he or she has to share. The child may first think just of money. But remind the child about time, talents, and ideas.

Here are some additional ideas to help you teach your child the giving habit.

• Put a box in your child's room to put outgrown clothes and unwanted toys in.
• Have your child go with you to take the clothes and toys to the church rummage sale, the neighborhood center's clothing drive, or the Salvation Army.
• Take your child with you when you volunteer. As the child gets older, encourage him or her to volunteer too.
• Identify a community project that your entire family can devote time, money, or materials to.
• Make plans for giving gifts for birthdays, holidays, and other special occasions. Help your child think about alternatives.

Learning Together 

As you discuss sharing and giving with your child, use some of the words listed below. Then have him or her complete this activity by drawing a line from the word on the left to its meaning on the right. It may be necessary to use a dictionary for some of the words.

Answers: 1f, 2e, 3a, 4h, 5d, 6g, 7c, 8b

Prepared by Donna K. Donald, family life field specialist, and Vicki W. Sickels, former family support program associate, and edited by Laura Sternweis, communication specialist, Iowa State University Extension

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