What should parents do if they witness bullying?

Immediately stop the bullying: Stand between the child or children being bullied and the bully, preferably blocking eye contact between them.
Refer to the bullying behavior and to the relevant school rules against bullying. Use a matter-of-fact tone of voice to state what behaviors you saw/heard. Let students know that bullying is unacceptable and against school rules (e.g., “Calling someone names is bullying and is against our school rules,” or “That was bullying. I won’t allow students to push or hurt each other that way”).
Support the bullied child in a way that allows him or her to regain self-control, to “save face,” and to feel supported and safe from retaliation.
Include bystanders in the conversation and give them guidance about how they might appropriately intervene or get help next time.
Do not require the students to meet and “work things out.” Unlike conflicts, bullying involves a power imbalance, which means this strategy will not work.¹
Notify parents of children who are involved, as appropriate. Research shows it is always better to work through your principal and teacher to notify parents. ²
Notify school staff, as appropriate.¹

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