Playground Heroes (page 2)
Who can stop bullying? Not just parents and teachers, argue Ken Rigby and Bruce Johnson.
Bullying in schools is now widely recognized as a serious social problem that must be addressed if we care about the well-being of bullied children. Thus far, however, attempts to reduce bullying in schools have largely failed.
A 2004 comprehensive evaluation of the effectiveness of anti-bullying programs in schools around the world (Bullying in Schools: How Successful Can Interventions Be? edited by Peter K. Smith, Debra Pepler, and Ken Rigby) found that achievements so far have been modest at best. In some cases, the interventions have been totally unsuccessful. Why have anti-bullying programs met with so little success? We suggest two important reasons.
The first is that educators have concentrated on encouraging teachers and counselors to watch what is happening and take strong disciplinary action when bullying has occurred. Unfortunately, school authorities are commonly unaware of what is going on. This is not to blame them. It is simply to recognize that bullying goes on in the company of peers and rarely in the company of teachers. Children see it happening, but the teachers do not. Only occasionally do students tell.
The second reason why anti-bullying programs often fail is because they are not effectively supported by children. One of the startling facts to emerge from the research into children's behavior in recent years has been the almost ubiquitous presence of other children when bullying takes place in schools. We can no longer conceive of bullying at school as a covert activity, engaged in guiltily when there is no one around. On the contrary, research has found that school bullies glory in the presence of an audience. It provides theater. To a remarkable extent, the watchers either enjoy the spectacle or watch in a curious but largely disengaged manner. The few who may object are in a small minority.
Yet some do object. And here is another remarkable fact. On those rare occasions when a witness does object to bullying, there is a good chance that the bullying will stop. Indeed, several researchers have reported that bystander objections effectively discourage bullying at least half the time.
Educators are now beginning to think that promoting positive bystander intervention may be a more effective way to counter bullying. To succeed, anti-bullying programs must enlist the support of children. But, as we have noted, children typically just stand by and watch bullying take place. Why don't they act? More to the point, how can they be encouraged to act and to act effectively? We need to know what students typically do when they're bystanders in the presence of bullying, and why.
In our own research, we set out to cast some light on children's motives by showing them a video of different kinds of bullying, then asking them what they would do in each situation. We found that while a small proportion would support the bullying and many would ignore it, a substantial number of children believed they would act to support the victim. Their good intentions which ranged from simple moral justifications to the desire for reciprocal benefit to feelings of empathy or close identification with the victim can be encouraged and lever- aged to help stop bullying.
We now have useful insights into what children think and are prepared to do when they witness bullying in the school playground. This knowledge can help us to devise more effective ways of addressing the problem, such as catalyzing classroom discussions about bullying and rehearsing with students what they might say when they see bullying take place. In these ways, we might influence bystanders to act more positively in the face of bullying.
The young bystander
To find out what children think when they witness bullying, we made a video of cartoons showing different kinds of bullying—both physical and verbal—with bystanders present. (See figures on the next page.) We showed the video to school children in upper elementary and lower high school classes in South Australia. As part of what we called the International Bystander Project, col- leagues showed the same video to similar groups of school children in England and South Africa, and, with appropriate translations, to children in Italy, Israel, and Bangladesh.
When asked what they would personally do as a bystander in each situation, children in the different countries responded in much the same way. Most of the children were divided between those who believed they would act in some way to support the victim and those who would ignore him.
The reasons given for not helping the victim fell into four categories. The first was that it was "not my concern. "Some children wrote: "It is not my problem if someone I don't know is getting picked on"; "It isn't nice to intrude on someone's business"; "I am just an onlooker "; "They can solve it all by them-selves"; and "None of my business."
A second reason was fear of the consequences: "The people may turn on ME! "; "If I got involved I would probably get bashed "; "I would be scared it would happen to me "; "It might be embarrassing "; and "I don't want to be a'sissy' by telling a teacher. "
Thirdly, some felt that the responsibility is (or should be) with the victim. "He [the victim] should stick up for himself. " "Most people can take care of themselves and sometimes the [victims] deserve it. " Older children were more likely to feel unsympathetic toward victims and blame them for being victimized.
Fourthly, some argued that personal action to stop the bullying would be use- less, or might even make matters worse. "They would not take any notice of me," wrote one child. "If I ignored it, it might stop, because they are not getting any attention, " wrote another.
Sadly, some children and some adults too approve of bullying. Some find the violence or the possibility of violence attractive. "I love to watch fights. " "Every kid likes to have fun and I am part of it. " In some cases there is sincere admiration for the bullies. "The person insulting the other person is cool and ROCKS." Several seemed to have genuinely sadistic motives: "The person pushing [the victim] is me or my friend and you gotta be cruel. " "Some people deserve to get their heads kicked in because they are dickheads. " Some believed that supporting the bully was the safer option: "Everyone would be on the insulter's side so I'm not going on the insulted side because I would get drilled. " Fortunately, children with these attitudes are in the minority.
Reprinted with the permission of the Greater Good Science Center.
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