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Get Ready: Job Interviews That Get You Hired (page 5)

By LearningExpress Editors
LearningExpress, LLC
Updated on Nov 30, 2010

The Importance of Listening

There are three good reasons for listening well:

  1. To gain information about the job
  2. To ask questions
  3. To link what you have heard with the success story you want to tell

Summarizing information and using it to preface a question make it clear to the interviewer that you've been listening and understand the information correctly, but also give you the opportunity to connect what you've just learned to an anecdote about yourself.

For example, suppose the interviewer has just told you that the company's objective for the year is to develop new business in a particular area and, consequently, certain departments will be reorganized or perhaps created to meet the new objective. You could start your response by summarizing: "Because the company is interested in new business development, I'm sure you're looking for people with initiative and creativity." This is your "in"—the appropriate moment to launch into one of your success stories. In this case, of course, the main idea would be to give a compelling example of your initiative.

Above all, remember that an interview is a conversation. Make sure that you are an active participant in that conversation.

Effective listening involves skill. Here are a few points about listening to keep in mind for an interview:

  • Be attentive and slightly lean forward to signal your interest in what is being said
  • Look directly at your interviewer, but in a natural way (without staring or blinking)
  • Pay attention and stay in the present
  • Don't interrupt
  • Balance talking with listening
  • Ask questions if there is something you don't understand or if a point needs to be clarified
  • Take the time to answer a question, rather than rushing in with a half-baked response

How to Ask and Answer Questions Effectively

In an interview, you will be doing a lot of talking, whether you're asking questions or responding to questions. In any case, be clear on your objectives: Why are you talking in this interview?

  1. To give information
  2. To sell yourself through your success stories
  3. To project confidence
  4. To demonstrate your communication skills

By showing that you are a good listener, you get more than information and an opportunity to tell one of your success stories: listening makes a connection, establishes a rapport between you and the interviewer. The same applies to talking—to what you say. This requires a few good verbal communication skills. Here are a few basic tips:

  • Be clear and concise. If your interviewer's attention seems to wander, you might be rambling. If he or she constantly has to ask you to say more about a question you just answered, you may not be saying enough.
  • Make sure you have answered the question being asked.
  • Be direct: Make declarative statements by using the word I.
  • Don't hedge: Avoid words and phrases such as maybe, perhaps, you know, and so forth.
  • Project your voice, so you can be heard clearly (but don't shout).
  • Speak with enthusiasm.

If you are extroverted, social, and tend to talk a lot (or perhaps even too much, on occasion), you will want to pull back in an interview. Pare down the stories you tell by eliminating extraneous information. Even better, conduct more practice interviews with friends and family; they can tell you if you are being overly gregarious.

On the other hand, if you are quiet by nature, make an effort to become more actively engaged in the conversation and use more energy. This is where videotaping and rehearsing your success stories before an interview comes in handy. Listen to your stories again and again and cut or embellish them as you go along. Be sure to get as much critical input as you can from people you know, especially those who have been interviewed themselves or, even better, who have interviewed others.

Sell Yourself—and Prove Your Claims

The interview is a sales meeting, and your goal is to sell yourself. It's tempting to make flat assertions that you expect the interviewer to take on face value. Some of these assertions might be: "I'm a great worker, I'm punctual, upbeat, and diligent."

The problem with this response is that you are telling the interviewer what to think rather than proving your claim. By now, you've probably realized that this is what success stories are all about—backing up your claims about your abilities by giving a real-life example. So, if you're tempted to say that you're a good worker, then you need to give an example to back up that claim.

Often companies look for your experiences on a team and how you contributed to the overall team outcomes. So another thing to consider is when to say "I" and when to say "we." The answer is that you have to balance both. It's a mistake to always say "we." The interviewer will never fully understand your individual contribution. In addition, if you always say "I," it will seem as if you weren't able to collaborate.

A final word of caution: Don't be tempted to fabricate your role on a team. Company recruiters say that they are often in situations on campus where they interview every member of a team. Eventually, the real contributors to the team are clear to the recruiters because all the other team members corroborate their story.

For example, compare the following responses. Emily and Shira are both interviewing at an insurance company. The interviewer asks, "What are your strengths and weaknesses?"

Weak response:

Emily: I'm a great worker. I'm punctual, efficient, upbeat, and diligent. These skills make me a perfect candidate for this job. I've never missed a deadline. I never received a word of negative feedback at my old job. My only real weakness is that I'm such a perfectionist.

Great response:

Shira: My greatest strength is persistence. In my old job, I was on the audit team of a major cosmetics company. The team leader always gave me the fact-finding missions that had stumped everyone else. However, I sometimes try to take on too many projects at once, and it's difficult for me to admit that I can't handle my workload. I had to learn that there are times when the best thing to do is delegate tasks to other people.

In this example, Emily is only giving flat assertions with no proof of claim. Shira, on the other hand, describes her strengths. She readily admits her faults, but also shows how she tries to overcome them.

The objective of any interview is to strike a balance between describing your accomplishments to the best of your ability and giving the interviewer enough room to judge them independently. In other words, don't try to tell the interviewer what to think. But do tell your stories as compellingly as possible. The power of influence should be wielded gently and used intelligently.

Remember to Dress Professionally

Listening and responding well to your interviewer and subtly reflecting his or her body language, mood, and communication style will exert a powerful influence on how you are perceived by the interviewer. A rich mix of verbal and visual signals will pass between you, many of them on a subliminal level. But there is one aspect of interviewing that you can influence quite consciously through a nonverbal cue: clothing.

An entire lexicon has been written on the subject of "dressing for success," but perhaps the best approach is to keep it simple. For example, why not put together a couple of interview "uniforms" that look great and make you feel great every time you wear them. For the sake of saving time and anxiety (not to mention money), it helps to have fewer choices. If you want to refresh the look of your "uniform," you can always accessorize. Following are some tips.

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