Risky Behaviors and Bullying Toolkit (page 3)

Risky Behaviors and Bullying Questions on the IYS

There are 28 questions on the Iowa Youth Survey (IYS) that are related to risky behaviors and bullying. They will be broken down into five different categories based on their content.

Questions Related to Current Substance Use

• During the last 30 days, on how many days did you have 5 or more drinks of alcohol in a row?
• In the past 30 days, on how many days have you had at least one drink of alcohol?
• In the past 30 days, on how many days have you smoked cigarettes?
• In the past 30 days, on how many days have you smoked cigars?
• On how many of the last 30 days have you used smokeless tobacco?
• In the past 30 days, on how many days have you used marijuana?

Questions Related to Violent/Aggressive Behavior

• In the past 12 months, how often have you carried a gun, knife, club or other weapon the school?
• In the past 12 months, how often have you used alcohol or other illegal drugs on school property?
• In the past 12 months, how often have you been disciplined at school for fighting, theft, or damaging property?
• In the past 12 months, how often have you been involved in a physical fight on school property?
• In the past 12 months, how often have you been offered, sold, or given illegal drugs on school property?
• In the past 12 months, how often have you damaged property just for fun?
• In the past 12 months, how often have you beaten up on or fought someone because they made you angry?
• In the past 12 months, how often have you used a weapon, force, or threats to get money or things from someone?
• In the past 12 months, how often have you verbally threatened to physically harm someone?
• In the past 12 months, how often have you stolen something?

Questions Related to Gambling

• If you have gambled in the past 12 months, how much money did you usually bet?

Questions Related to Suicide

• In the last 12 months, did you make a plan about how you would attempt suicide?
• Have you ever tried to kill yourself?

Questions Related to Bullying

• In the last 30 days, how many times have you been bullied in this way:
  • I was called names, was made fun of, or teased in a hurtful way.
  • Other students left me out of things on purpose, excluded me from their group of friends, or completely ignored me.
  • I was hit, kicked, pushed, shoved around, or locked indoors. Other students told lies, spread false rumors about me, and tried to make others dislike me.
  • I was made fun of because of my race or color. I was made fun of because of my religion.
  • Other students made sexual jokes, comments, or gestures that hurt my feelings.
  • I have received a threatening or hurtful message from another student in an email, on a website, on a cell phone, from a pager text message, in an internet chat room, or in instant messaging.
• When a student is bullied at school, how often do the teachers or other adults at school try to put a stop to it?

Risky Behaviors and Bullying: A Learning Supports Data Tool So What?

Questions Related to Gambling

• If you have gambled in the past 12 months, how much money did you usually bet?

Questions Related to Suicide

• In the last 12 months, did you make a plan about how you would attempt suicide?
• Have you ever tried to kill yourself?

Questions Related to Bullying

• In the last 30 days, how many times have you been bullied in this way:
• I was called names, was made fun of, or teased in a hurtful way.
• Other students left me out of things on purpose, excluded me from their group of friends, or completely ignored me.
• I was hit, kicked, pushed, shoved around, or locked indoors.
• Other students told lies, spread false rumors about me, and tried to make others dislike me.
• I was made fun of because of my race or color.
• I was made fun of because of my religion.
• Other students made sexual jokes, comments, or gestures that hurt my feelings.
• I have received a threatening or hurtful message from another student in an email, on a website, on a cell phone, from a pager text message, in an internet chat room, or in instant messaging.
• When a student is bullied at school, how often do the teachers or other adults at school try to put a stop to it?

Risky Behaviors and Bulling: A Learning Supports Data Tool So What?

Guide for Discussion about IYS Trend Data

• The following questions are designed to facilitate a broad discussion with stakeholders about local risky behaviors and bullying data.
• What additional data sources may be useful in helping you understand your local IYS risky behaviors and bullying data?
• What in particular concerns you about your trend data? How will the trendline continue in the future if you maintain current programming? Is this trend acceptable? If not, how would you prefer it to look in the future?
• What have you already done to address risky behaviors and bullying issues in your area?
• What does the research say will improve risky behaviors and bullying issues?

Risky Behaviors and Bullying: A Learning Supports Data Tool 22 So What?

• Based on your data, what do you propose to do in the future to address risky behaviors and bullying issues in your area? (Include at least one low-cost/no-cost idea). See the following Now What? section for ideas.
• Who will your partners be? Who else is concerned about these issues? What resources do you need? How could you spend existing resources more effectively?
• How will you know that the youth in your area are better off?
• Is there additional information you will need to collect to monitor your progress and verify that your plan is effective?

Now What?

• Consider the Following Action Steps...
• Review your districts student conduct code, discipline policies, and other related policies to make sure that they are current, accurate, and being implemented appropriately.
• Ask to see aggregate data on office referrals, suspensions, attendance and other data for students who display risky behaviors in your district.
• Talk with administrators, teachers, and experts in your community about the story behind that data - why do your students display these behaviors and what has been done in the past to address these issues?
• Ask what your district is currently doing to support students who have behavior and bullying issues? Does your current programming have an evidence-base? Is it likely to make a change in student behaviors and bullying?
• Determine what gaps in current programming exist to promote a healthy life style and social adjustment.
• Support implementation of evidence-based efforts that address identified gaps.
• Ask that district staff become proactive in providing fair and consistent discipline along with positive behavioral supports to help students with behavior and bullying issues.
• Ask for regular data reports on how student behavior and bullying is changing. Request that this report become a part of your districts ongoing school improvement efforts.
• Support parents that may contact you with concerns about bullying or other risky behaviors. Ask that the problems be investigated and solutions reported back to you to ensure that they are addressed.
• Remember, the things that get reported are the things that get changed. Research has clearly shown that students who feel safe in their environment, connected to school, and who are socially well adjusted do better academically and also are less likely to be involved in risky behaviors.

Now What?

• What can school board members do to help improve risky behaviors and bullying?

Now What?

• What can students do to help improve risky behaviors and bullying?

Consider the Following Action Steps...

• If you have social problems, relationships problems, or problems that place you or others in danger:
• Find an adult you trust and ask for help. Continue to ask until someone hears you and takes action.
• Seek help from a professional or talk with a spiritual leader in your community.
• Evaluate your current friendships and determine whether the friends you have are a positive or negative influence on you. Act accordingly.

When you are being bullied:

• If you feel safe, tell the person to stop the bullying behavior. Say you dont like it and that it isnt funny. Then tell an adult at school. When bullying does not get reported, it is allowed to continue.
• Dont bully back. It wont help -- and it could make things worse.
• If you need help talking to an adult at school, take a friend along.
• When you have friends or classmates with social problems, relationships problems, or problems that place them or others in danger:
• Never think you can solve such problems on your own! Help your friend or classmate by getting help from an adult. Support them by going with them to seek help.
• Ask your parent for support as you try help. Make sure your family understands your desire to help and they approve of your plan.
• Work with other students in your school to reach out to those that are isolated or loners. Ask them to get involved in school activities.

When you see someone being bullied:

• Think about how you might feel if the bullying was happening to you. You and other students can help by saying something, even when you arent close friends with the student who is bullied.
• Say kind words to the student who is being bullied. Help him/her understand that its not his/her fault. Be a friend.
• Tell the student who is being bullied to talk to someone about what happened. Offer to help by going along.
• Pay attention to the others who see the bullying (bystanders). Encourage them to join in helping.

Now What? What can parents do to help improve risky behaviors and bullying? Consider the following action steps...

• Always maintain open lines of communication with your child.

What to do if your child/youth engages in risky behaviors:

• Seek help from someone at the school or a professional. Dont assume that the behavior will go away or that your child/youth is going through a phase. If the behavior causes you concern, ask someone who has expertise in that area.
• Develop a plan with your child/youth to correct the behavior. Be consistent and follow through with the plan. Get support for yourself if needed.
• Work with your son/daughter to understand the consequences of their actions. Help them make restitution for any damage or emotional trauma they may have caused others.

What to do if your child is being bullied:

• First, focus on your child/youth. Be supportive and gather information. Ask him/her to describe who was involved and how, where the bullying took place, and who may have been a witness.
• Never tell your child/youth to ignore the bullying. Often, trying to ignore bullying allows it to become more serious.
• Empathize with your child. Tell him/her that bullying is wrong and that you are glad s/he had the courage to tell you about it. Ask your child what s/he thinks can be done to help.
• Do not encourage retaliation (Just hit them back) as a solution. This is not likely to end the problem, and it could get your child/youth suspended or escalate the situation.

How to engage school staff:

• Parents are often reluctant to report bullying to school officials, but bullying may not stop without the help of adults.
• Keep your emotions in check. Give factual information about the situation including who, what, when, where, and how. Emphasize that you want to work with the staff at school to find a solution for the sake of your child as well as other students.
• Keep records of your actions, who you have contacted, and what resulted from your efforts. Expect the bullying to stop and continue to work with the school until it does.

Now What? Consider the Following Action Steps...

• Act to stop the behaviors immediately. Make certain that you are familiar with school policies and act accordingly to deal with, record and/or report the situation. Make a referral if needed.
• Support any victims of the risky behavior in a way that allows them to regain self-control, to save face, and to feel supported and safe from retaliation. Include bystanders in the conversation and give them guidance about how they might appropriately intervene or get help next time something like this happens.
• When appropriate, impose immediate consequences for students who bully others or behave in ways that place other students at-risk. Then, provide follow-up interventions as needed.
• Dont force a meeting between the student who is victimized and the student who inflicted the harm. Such meetings can cause much further damage and forced apologies dont help.
• Dont assume that you must have all the details before you act. You may not be able to employ the policies of the conduct code based on the information you have, but you can certainly have a conversation with those involved. Err on the side of offering more services, rather than fewer.
• Notify parents as appropriate. Keep records of all communications and the results of those communications.
• Remember to be professional with all involved. Confidentiality is important. Equally important is the need to be supportive of all involved.
• Be proactive. Students with social and emotional problems are not difficult to spot in your classroom or work area. Pay attention and/or spend time with them. Work to connect them with school activities and other students that will have a positive effect on their attitudes and behaviors.
• Above all, make certain that each at-risk student has at least one positive relationship with an adult in your school. If you are not the right person, find someone!

Now What?

• What can teachers do to help improve risky behaviors and bullying?
• Consider the Following Action Steps...
• Collect data. Analyze it in various ways to determine whether specific barriers exist in your school or community environment that contribute to these behaviors.
• Consult with staff to gain specific information on such barriers and what is currently being done to address them. Include instructional staff as well as support services in this dialogue to ensure that all perspectives are represented.
• Talk with students about the behaviors that concern you the most. Never forget that they have a unique perspective and can offer support to help alleviate the problem.
• Dont assume that stronger discipline policies or zero tolerance will make the changes you desire. Students need fair and consistent discipline along with positive supports to make the changes needed.
• Ask an existing group of staff, students, and parents to take on the coordination of efforts to improve these behaviors. Provide them with data, research, and supports needed to study the problem and make recommendations for change. (Keep in mind that this group will work with aggregate data and should never have confidential or personal information on individual students.)
• Learn about proven practices and carefully select the programs and practices that best fit the needs of your school. Consider cost as well as the time needed for adequate professional development and quality implementation.
• Always think about the resources that the community can bring to bear. Think about the expertise of various agencies, supports from local groups, potential mentors and/or tutors, etc. Engage the appropriate individuals and groups to help.
• Evaluate your efforts to make sure that barriers are eliminated and changes are positive. As student behavior improves, so will student performance. Assume that these efforts are part of your schools continuous improvement plan so that the focus remains on learning, eliminating barriers to learning, and supporting learning in whatever way is required.

Now What? What can school administrators do to help improve risky behaviors and bullying?

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Now What? What can community members do to help improve risky behaviors and bullying? Consider the Following Action Steps...

As an individual consider:

• Learning about the school. Find out how well students are doing, what your school is trying to do to improve, etc. You may find a niche for your skills or expertise. Ask if you can help.
• Volunteering. Schools often need tutors and mentors especially for students with social/emotional problems. Know how much time you have to offer, find an area that interests you, and make sure that you can keep your commitment. A volunteer who doesnt show is always bad. A volunteer who shows but gives a half-hearted effort is equally bad.

Getting to know the youth in your neighborhood.

• If you dont already know them by name, find a way to connect with them and their family. Allow them the opportunity to get to know you and let them know that youre interested in seeing them from time to time.
• Asking the school how you can help make sure that all students have the supplies they need for daily assignments.
• Supporting students who may not have the clothing, instruments, rentals, etc. that are needed to participate in extra-curricular activities on an equal footing with other students.

As a business leader consider:

• Developing school-business relationships by supporting job fairs, career days, creating job shadowing opportunities for students, and allowing students to visit your business to learn more about the skills needed for successful employment.
• Participating in or providing opportunities for community service or supporting service learning activities.

As a local service provider consider:

• Supporting school/community relationships by providing information on the services available for students and their families.
• Sharing information on educational programs in the community as well as internship work opportunities.