Tips for Parents: Keeping the Light in Their Eyes

Tips for Parents: Keeping the Light in Their Eyes
By Robin Schader
Davidson Institute for Talent Development

Source: Davidson Young Scholar Seminar
Dr. Robin Schader of the Neag Center for Gifted Education and Talent Development explains the factors that lead to achievement. A number of interesting ideas are presented on everything from the joy of learning to the value of hard work.

Several years ago, Joseph Renzulli drew the diagram E ? A to illustrate that the combination of Engagement, Enjoyment, and Enthusiasm leads to Achievement. These 3 “E”s are signs of light in the eyes.

Although our fast-paced, achievement-based, and measurable-results-oriented world may discount time taken to explore interests, it is time well spent, and is actually an essential piece of successful talent development. How do we know? One example comes from research at the University of Connecticut that addressed the success attributions of female U.S. Olympians. Findings indicated that exceptional performance occurs when “interests” and “abilities” coincide. It is the intersection of the two that is key. As one Olympian said when asked why she pursued the sport at which she earned her Olympic berth, “I was good at it (her sport) and I liked it. If I didn’t like it, no matter how much natural ability I had, I wouldn’t have been able to put in the work to be at this level.” Other examples come from K. Anders Ericsson’s research on the development of expertise. He points out that people may give up trying in an area (with the excuse that they really aren’t very good at it), when it isn’t necessarily a lack of ability standing between them and success, but a lack of desire to put in hard work and deliberate practice.

Therefore, if we hope our gifted children will actualize their potential, we must not only cultivate in them the qualities of perseverance, practice, and persistence, we must also guard their enjoyment and enthusiasm for learning. Interest areas, far from being ways to while away the hours, are the fertile ground where we, as parents and teachers, can encourage a child’s development.

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