Average Height and Weight of Preschoolers
| Males | Females | |||
| Age | Height (inches) | Weight (pounds) | Height (inches) | Weight (pounds) |
| 3 years | 37.5 | 31.75 | 37 | 30.75 |
| 4 years | 40.5 | 36 | 39.75 | 35 |
| 5 years | 43 | 40.75 | 42.5 | 39.75 |
Social and Emotional Development
A major responsibility of preschool teachers is to promote and support children’s social and emotional development. Positive social and emotional development enables children to learn better and to succeed in all of school and life activities.
During the preschool years (ages three to five), children are in Erikson’s psychosocial development stage of initiative versus guilt. During this stage, children are fully involved in locomotive activities and the enjoyment of doing things. They are very active and want to plan and be involved in activities. They want to move and be active.
You can help support children’s initiative in these ways:
- Give children freedom to explore.
- Provide projects and activities that enable children to discover and experiment.
- Encourage and support children’s attempts to plan, make things, and be involved.
Self-Regulation
During the preschool years, children are learning self-regulation, the ability to control their emotions and behaviors, to delay gratification, and to build positive social relations with each other.
Teaching self-regulation (i.e., self-control) is a major teacher task during the preschool years. The following guidelines will help you teach self-regulation to preschool children:
- Provide a variety of learning experiences. Young children are very good at creating diversion when none is available. Often teachers think they cannot provide interesting learning experiences until the children are under control, when, in fact, the real problem is that the children are out of control because there is nothing interesting to do.
- Arrange the environment to help children do their best. Make sure block building activities are accorded enough space and are protected from traffic. Avoid arrangements that invite children to run or fight, such as long corridors or large open spaces.
- Get to know each child. Establish relationships with parents, and support children’s strengths as well as their needs.
- Set clear limits for unacceptable behavior. Enforce them with rational explanations in a climate of mutual respect and caring.
- Work with children to establish a few simple group rules. Some appropriate rules are to take care of other people, take care of yourself, and take care of the classroom. Systematically teach and reinforce these rules throughout the school year.
- Use the child’s home language as often as possible. Make every effort to show children you support their culture and respect their language.
- Coach children to express their feelings verbally. Help children use either their home language or English, and solve social problems with others using words. For many children, this will mean not only providing the words and offering some possible solutions, but being there to assist when situations arise.
- Model self-control by using self-talk. “Oh, I can’t get this lid off the paint. I am feeling frustrated [take a deep breath]. Now I’ll try again.”16
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